Loving to understand each other

Sometimes quite difficult to understand the meaning of one's presence to us, sometimes he can be present when we do not need it but sometimes he is very difficult to find when we really need it.

When he comes to take all my love and hope, not expect the property and lives only a wisp of a desire to see you smile.... But we never understand the desire that occurred in his heart.

He always says not love him if we wished to control couples. Nor was it love when we are willing to succumb to the satisfaction of lovers. People who love do not take a lover as a boss or subordinate, but as a partner to share, also to recognize the meaning of self -

If we wish to master the lover (very limiting her social, positive activities forbid, regulate appetite dress, etc.) or simply give in (do not protest when the lovers behave badly, do not mind the number back), then we're not ready to give and receive love.

Sometimes he never passed his lips to say "I love you", never heard a whisper of longing, not a flower that had suddenly come when we open our eyes, no scratches verses love poems that sometimes made him complacent but always expressing a sense of his love through "acts" that we seldom realize ... that's him .... People who may now close to us, but we are not aware of his presence. He comes with a simplicity that he had. He comes with a sense of love that is not the time to say. He comes with keeping all the longing that has not been able to be expressed....

Selfishness, indulgence, childish sometimes makes us demanding "more" of him,

"You never want to see me!"

"You do not have the attention to me!"

"You can still romantic guns!

Many more buzz that often we say to him, and maybe now we are not permitted in a bond.

In the course of this story try to understand and identify him, although now only in the form of shadows, especially for someone who has legitimate ties tied in a sacred..... Understand the meaning of her smile ... ... recognize the meaning of existence....... Appreciate the love that was hidden from him.... then that's a love.....